That annoyance when your son tells you that grandpa said that boys can't like pink and you realize that you need to have THAT talk with them...again. Anyone can like whatever color they want. Leave your sexist bullcrap to yourself. If my boys want to like pink and Sky and Peppa Pig and Princesses and that annoying genie show on Nick Jr., they can. Just because a boy likes pink doesn't mean anything. Same with a girl and blue. They're just flippin colors!
Also saying that pink isn't for boys because it'll make them gay also says that you think there's something wrong with homosexuals! Screw off with you and your stories of that one gay friend you had. The token gay friend. You can still be intolerant of homosexuals even with that token friend, if they ever existed in the first place.
And don't flipping tell me it's choice. Like, when did you decide that your butt was straight? I'm bisexual and it doesn't feel like a choice to me. I'm not going to wake up tomorrow and "choose a side". It doesn't work that way. Just because I'm married to a man, with children, still doesn't mean anything. I didn't choose a side. I'm still sexually attracted to women!. But I met and fell in love with a man first. That's it.
After a long, frustrating back and forth with Wolfman, me, and Daddy, we finally got that little boy to agree with us, for now. I had to point out that George, Daddy Pig, and Grandpa Pig were all pink and they were boys. Confused him for second. I also had to break the secret that Paw Paw doesn't know everything, and in this case, he's wrong and he's being mean.
Guess it's probably best to shatter that illusion now.
I'm just annoyed, I know how grandpa is. He's loud and only his beliefs are right. I've already had this talk with him and my mom. It blew up into a giant fight on Facebook and I ended up unfriending and blocking him because he just wasn't getting it. It was ugly, but my Guides taught me not to argue with fools, so I just let him spew.
Gender stereotypes aren't allowed in my home. They're outdated, wrong, limiting, and intolerant. It's fine and dandy if you want to live by them, but don't you freaking dare to put that crap in my children's head. Your home or not, they're my children. Hubby and I are going to have another conversation with them.
I just looked up the post about that "disagreement" and it happened around this time in 2014! Just what the ever loving... Three chances, I guess. If it happens a third time, make them choose between teaching my children their narrow beliefs or seeing their grandkids. I've already cut one set of grandparents out of our lives for good reasons, I'm not afraid to do it again. I'd rather NOT cut my mom out of our lives, but I don't want my kids growing up with that school of thought, either.
Well, I vented, I feel better. Best to get the vitriol out now, instead of when I'm face-to-face with them. But I swear if my kids come back praising Trump one of these days, I'm going to flippin lose it. (Sorry if you're a Trump supporter, but I don't like him, and I'm going to leave it as that. That and my kids are 2 and 4. Far too young for politics.)