Friday, May 19, 2017

Another Proud Pagan Mama Moment!

After I saged, cleaned, and cast healing spells for the house (stomach virus), I went upstairs to meditate at Poseidon's shrine during the storm (utilize that wonderful charged energy), instead The Vinny Man (aka Warrior) woke up from his nap and decided to slightly, delightfully, derail my plans.

We sat by the open window, enjoying the cool breeze from the storm, and I taught him a little about my spiritual tradition--a bit about how Zeus is in the sky and creates lightning and thunder, and how Poseidon is the rain and the river outside of our house. It was really cute hearing him rephrase everything I was teaching him. 

Lightning would flash and moments later, thunder would rumble, and he'd gasp, excitedly saying, "That's Theus!"

One night, when the storms were scaring Wolfman, my husband told the boys that it was nothing to worry about, just the Gods playing hockey.  Since Wolf's been to a hockey game, it really resonated with him, and helped him not be afraid.  We taught them about a few deities who're associated with the sky and storms, and basically said that it was a friendly game between Team Zeus and Team Thor.  The lightning was one of the teams scoring.  

Interesting and fun instead of scary.  

Monday, May 1, 2017

Happy Third, Little Man!

Long time, no post!

We celebrated Warrior's birthday with a Finding Dory theme, and a trip to the zoo afterwards.  The kids had a blast!  And for once, I wasn't a ball of bitchy stress.  I was able to enjoy myself for both events.


This time the cupcake cake was from Kroger and it was surprisingly better than Walmart!  I may not have a reason to ever return to Walmart!

The favor cups were filled with Dory sticks, bubbles, plastic sea animals, Dory graham crackers, swedish fish, cookies n cream goldfish, and my mom added suckers, skittles, and chocolate covered pretzels.  For the two babies, I made cups with stickers, bubbles, graham crackers for the parents, and yogurt bites and cereal melts for the babies.

It was a great turn out.  All of the cousins were in the house this birthday!  It was pretty sweet.  We were going to have his birthday on the 29, but my brother had a Call to Arms ceremony that day.  So so he could come, I moved it instead to the 22nd, which worked out for my SIL who lives in WV.

Then it was off to the Columbus Zoo and Aquarium, for a Warrior milestone!  Although the boys were more into the vehicle props and their first train ride, than they were the animals...



...Until we got up close and personal with the manatees....  then it was allll about the manatees and stingrays.


And of course, them wanting to go to my Uncle's to go fishing in his pond.  My kids, for sure.  lol.  it was a good time.  We only saw about half of the park, but the boys are eager to go back, if only for the train....we'll see the rest of the park.

Ask them what their favorite animals are though and they'll still respond with cats and dogs.  They like what they like!

If you observe, have a good May Day, Beltane, and Samhain!

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

Giving Back

Still around.  Wolfman was having issues with peeing the bed in January.  He just can't grasp the idea of getting himself up and using the potty when he needs to, so this past month, I've been getting him up in the middle of the night to deal with this problem.  Once we get more water proof bedding, we're going to try to have himself get up without one of us.

He is standing up to pee, now, though, so that's something.

Warrior still won't poop on his potty.  To be fair, we didn't start potty training his brother until he was three, and Warrior's nearly 3.

They'll both come around eventually.

I just saw this video on Facebook and got really excited.  I enjoy crocheting stuffed cephalopods, and if I can find a hospital in my state who approves of the program of using these stuffed octopus' in their NICU's, then I'd be more than happy to make more.

My Nomad Home has an article with more information, including a pattern for those who want one.

When Warrior was an itty bitty preemie, he was given a blanket that I still cherish.  It'd be great to make something for another family, to comfort the babies and their families.


Sunday, February 5, 2017

Pink and Blue are Just Colors

That annoyance when your son tells you that grandpa said that boys can't like pink and you realize that you need to have THAT talk with them...again. Anyone can like whatever color they want. Leave your sexist bullcrap to yourself. If my boys want to like pink and Sky and Peppa Pig and Princesses and that annoying genie show on Nick Jr., they can. Just because a boy likes pink doesn't mean anything.  Same with a girl and blue.  They're just flippin colors!

Also saying that pink isn't for boys because it'll make them gay also says that you think there's something wrong with homosexuals!  Screw off with you and your stories of that one gay friend you had.  The token gay friend.  You can still be intolerant of homosexuals even with that token friend, if they ever existed in the first place.  

And don't flipping tell me it's choice.  Like, when did you decide that your butt was straight?  I'm bisexual and it doesn't feel like a choice to me.  I'm not going to wake up tomorrow and "choose a side".  It doesn't work that way.  Just because I'm married to a man, with children, still doesn't mean anything.  I didn't choose a side.  I'm still sexually attracted to women!.  But I met and fell in love with a man first.  That's it.  

After a long, frustrating back and forth with Wolfman, me, and Daddy, we finally got that little boy to agree with us, for now.  I had to point out that George, Daddy Pig, and Grandpa Pig were all pink and they were boys.  Confused him for second.  I also had to break the secret that Paw Paw doesn't know everything, and in this case, he's wrong and he's being mean.  

Guess it's probably best to shatter that illusion now.  

I'm just annoyed, I know how grandpa is.  He's loud and only his beliefs are right.  I've already had this talk with him and my mom.  It blew up into a giant fight on Facebook and I ended up unfriending and blocking him because he just wasn't getting it.  It was ugly, but my Guides taught me not to argue with fools, so I just let him spew.

Gender stereotypes aren't allowed in my home.  They're outdated, wrong, limiting, and intolerant.  It's fine and dandy if you want to live by them, but don't you freaking dare to put that crap in my children's head.  Your home or not, they're my children.  Hubby and I are going to have another conversation with them.  

I just looked up the post about that "disagreement" and it happened around this time in 2014!   Just what the ever loving...   Three chances, I guess.  If it happens a third time, make them choose between  teaching my children their narrow beliefs or seeing their grandkids.  I've already cut one set of grandparents out of our lives for good reasons, I'm not afraid to do it again.  I'd rather NOT cut my mom out of our lives, but I don't want my kids growing up with that school of thought, either.

Well, I vented, I feel better.  Best to get the vitriol out now, instead of when I'm face-to-face with them.   But I swear if my kids come back praising Trump one of these days, I'm going to flippin lose it.  (Sorry if you're a Trump supporter, but I don't like him, and I'm going to leave it as that.  That and my kids are 2 and 4.  Far too young for politics.)