I learned my lesson of never allowing him to add the spices...even though I told him exactly what to add, let me deal with the peppers after the meat is done. He loves spicy, and I'm not that into it. I like some spicy foods, but then again, they're not super spicy like this batch of chili.
But he feels terrible and is going to make me my own batch of chili and promises to let me do the seasonings.
Never thought I'd actually get so upset that I'd ball my eyes out over not being able to satisfy a craving...